Seriously, why is there no female version of the masturbation scene in American Pie? That minute of cinematic magic normalized the bizarre masturbation habits of guys everywhere. Now, it's time for ladies to embrace that same desire to get freaky however they please.
You wake up late on a Saturday morning You want to get it on, in, and everywhere in between, but your booty call is currently off-limits duh—it's daylight and the date you had last week was, let's be real, a total dud. What's a girl to do?
Oh masturbationmy favourite subject. For women and people with vaginas, orgasm can be an elusive, mystical thing. If you're a seasoned masturbator and want to try something new to wile away the hours or daysor want to explore your own body for the first time, these masturbation tips will help you have a cracking time.
To that end, most of us develop our own unique masturbation techniques as we organically and literally feel our way through the process. Do women gently touch themselves as they lay sprawled across the silkiest of satin sheets, a wind machine blowing their perfectly coiffed locks of luxurious hair as a hand daintily pleases her carefully groomed lady parts, lip gloss coated lips parted just so? Because I once tried grinding myself up against a pillow in order to bring myself to climax, and when I told a girlfriend of mine about it her response was, "Becca, that's nothing.
Screw manicures and blowouts: Masturbation is the ultimate act of self-care. You might think I'm crazy -- but you need to get in touch with yourself before you can get in touch with anyone else. Before spicing up your relationship, worry about spicing up your self-love.
Katy Thorn October 31, Users currently reading: 3. After our article focusing on methods for masturbation involving a peniswe received a lot of feedback asking how women masturbate. Masturbation for vulva-having folks is something LELO has always been dedicated to enhancing through our pleasure productsbut the techniques are not always described in explicit terms.
Sometimes, masturbation is like scratching an itch—the desire is just there from the getgo. Other times, you have to create that itch. Even on days when you're not desperately turned on, making time for masturbation has lots of benefitsfrom helping you explore your sexuality to relieving stress and even improving your health.
Use the techniques these 17 women lay out for inspiration and motivation. The whole thing probably takes 15 minutes, between finding the right porn, having a few orgasms, and then relaxing for a bit afterward. It helps me let go of tension, anger, or nervous energy. I prefer using my fingers.
There's no denying it: sex is pretty freaking awesome. Yet, sometimes you can't have sex with a partner, and masturbation is your best shot at having an orgasm. Maybe you're single, your SO is away, or you're horny AF when no one's around.