And her husband was the one who found people for her.
But the paucity of single black men with similar lifestyles led her to consider dating someone of a different race.
But these are unremarkable, middle-class black men.
'As a black woman I'm always fetishised': racism in the bedroom
One anecdotal example of this is my friend Yvonne.
She describes the pleasure of slipping on expensive underwear and a cocktail gown, looking and smelling exquisite, knowing that every ounce of effort will be explored and appreciated by numerous partners of both sexes.
Description: She knows a lot about the swinging scene because, together with her husband, she has been a keen swinger for a decade.